WHAT, WHERE AND HOW - our User Profile kinks explained. from Julia's blog

24/7 BDSM relationship - A relationship in which protocols are in place continuously.

Age play - Usually referring to daddy/daughter or mommy/baby role play. Does not usually include or imply aspects of incest, but rather the nurturing relationship of parent/child or teacher/student.

Anal torture - The BDSM practice of inflicting pain on the anus.

Auctioning off - Dominant auctions off the slave to the highest bidder (usually supervised and for temporary use).

BBW – Fetish for Big Beautiful Women.

Black sheet parties - An orgy for people into BDSM sex.

Bondage - Acts involving the physical restraint of the Submissive. Bondage typically refers to total restraint, however it can be limited to a particular body part, such as breast bondage.

Breast bondage and torture - The act of tying breasts so that they are either flattened against the chest or so that they bulge and inflicting pain on them.

Breath control - The Dominant controls the Submissive's breathing.

Chasity, teasing and denial - Keeping the Submissive aroused while delaying or preventing resolution of the feelings, and to keep them in a continual state of anticipatory tension and inner conflict. Also, a form of erotic sexual denial or orgasm denial whereby Submissive is prevented from access to their genitals.

Cross dressing - Wearing clothing typical of the opposite sex.

Electro play - The practice of using electrical stimulation to the nerves of the body using a power source (such as a TENS, EMS, Violet wand, or made-for-play units) for purposes of sexual stimulation, body modification, tickling, or torture.

Figging - The practice of inserting a piece of ginger root into the anus or vagina.

Fisting - Inserting a hand into the vagina or rectum.

Foot fetish – The attraction to seeing, touching, being around feet.

Genitals torture - Torture of the genitals.

Gun play - The practice of including actual (or simulated) firearms into a scene.

Human sushi platters – Serving sushi on a naked body.

Impact play - Part of sensation play, dealing with impact such as whips, riding crops, paddles, floggers, etc.

Infantilism - Parent/child or parent/baby role playing.

Ink fetish – Fetish for tattoos.

Knife play - Slow, methodical sensation of the bottom with the edges and points of knives, usually without hurting the Submissive.

Mummification - Immobilising the body by wrapping it up, usually with multiple layers of tight thin plastic sheeting. Breathing and other safety measures must be appropriately taken care of, often by leaving the face (or at least the mouth and nose) open. Mummification is often used to enhance a feeling of total bodily helplessness.

Piercing fetish– Fetish for pierced bodies.

Ponygirl or Ponyboy play - Sub is dressed in a pony outfit, with mouth piece and anal plug with a tail. They are told to prance or behave like a pony.

Rape fantasy - The pleasurable fantasy of inflicting or being a victim to an act of consensual play-rape.

Role play - It may involve two or more people who act out roles in a sexual fantasy and may be a form of foreplay and be sexually arousing.

Rubber/Latex/Leather fetish - Attraction to people wearing latex, rubber or leather clothing.

Shoe fetish - The attribution of attractive sexual qualities to shoes or other footwear.

Spanking – Self-explanatory ;)

Voyeurism or Exhibitionism - The sexual interest in or practice of spying on people engaged in intimate behaviors.

Water fetish -  Form of sexual fetishism that involves images of Submissive swimming or posing underwater, and sexual activity in or under water.


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